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When people adopt animals, they oftentimes say something along the lines of, “[insert pet name here] rescued me!” Although this mushy cliche makes my eyes roll to the back of my head, I have to agree with it. I rescued my rabbit from a lonely life in a cage. But my rabbit saved me from a lonely life in my apartment.

The Backstory

To understand this adoption adventure, you have to know a little more about me. I grew up with two sisters, so I always had “built-in friends.” When I went to college, there were always roommates, friends, and activities to keep me busy. I was never really alone.

rabbit stretching near a sliding glass door — The only good thing about that apartment was the giant sliding glass door. And even that needed a rabbit to optimize the experience.

Then it was time for the real world. I got a job as a news producer four and a half hours from home. My family helped pack all of my things and drove up to move me into a good sized apartment in Plattsburgh, N.Y.

When I first walked in, I have to admit, I was devastated. The galley kitchen was small. There was a wooden balcony, covered in spider webs (spiders are my phobia). The lighting was terrible. Compared to the beautiful, four bedroom home I was used to, this apartment was dingy. It was definitely “first world problems.” But having an unwelcoming apartment on top of leaving my family was too much. I basically had to stop myself from lamenting to my parents, “How can you leave me in this hole???”

I dreaded my impending doom, returning to my empty apartment after my first day at work… alone… with no one… by myself.

Hatching A Plan

While my parents were still helping me move, I started planning Operation Heartbeat (basically making sure there was one other living creature in that apartment, so it wouldn’t be a nightmare). I had always known I wanted to adopt an animal and made sure my apartment was pet-friendly.

I don’t love cats, so that was a no. A dog would take time to adopt and learn how to take care of from scratch. My new job would put me on a weird schedule, so there just wasn’t time for me to train a dog.

A rabbit would give me the perfect balance of animal love and personal space. Our family has had rabbits since I was in elementary school, so I knew I would have no problem taking care of one on my own.

I looked on Craigslist to see if there were any rabbits available nearby. A family was selling their small, white lionhead bunny.

The Craigslist Process And Not Getting Murdered

On Monday morning, I waved my family goodbye and headed off to my first day at work. Blah, blah, blah excited for work and meeting people. But in the back of my mind, I was really just thinking about that rabbit.

I emailed the family to see if they could do a safe exchange at the local police station. It was a no go. There were kids in the house, and some family member recovering from surgery. Although I wanted this rabbit sooo badly, I also didn’t want to get murdered by a copycat Craigslist killer.

In the end, my bunny greed overcame my fears. I headed to the house and called my parents. They stayed on the line as I walked inside.

Meeting My New Bun

The family seemed nice enough, but it was clear they had no real experience with rabbits. The white bunny was in a decent sized cage but didn’t have any place to run around. There was a dog in the house, and it seemed like the young kids had lost interest in the “less interesting” pet.

bunny sitting in the litter box — Baby didn’t have any toys when he was adopted.

It was honestly the best $20 I have ever spent.

The rabbit was scared and ran into the little hidey hole. I felt so badly for the poor thing and knew I would smother the bun with love! I gave the mother $20 for the bun, the cage, a water bottle, a dog food dish, a new bag of pellets, a small bag of hay.

Some people could say I rushed the decision and should have adopted from a reputable animal shelter. But I wouldn’t change a thing about my bunny buying story. An ad on Craigslist and a fear of being alone brought me a loving companion during a new, scary stage in my life.

Neither of us have been alone since.

How did you come upon your own bunny ol’ pal? Share your story in the comments!

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Not Giving Your Bunny All The Treats

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: If your rabbit is anything like Baby, he LIVES for treats. As in he acts like he’s never eaten a day in his life! Each food pellet is a gift, and each carrot bit is a miracle. According to your rabbit, you are clearly starving him and this stomach is an empty void.

According to Baby, if a bowl is empty for more than two minutes, it is a sign he will soon starve.

REALITY: You give the healthy amount of food pellets! You give some treats for tricks and cuteness (although sometimes a tad much). There is always plenty of hay to rummage around in the playpen. Resist the urge to splurge! You wouldn’t exclusively feed kids candy, so don’t give in to your bun’s gluttony either! Stick to your bunny’s healthy diet. You know what your rabbit needs better than your rabbit does. If you really are worried about what you’re feeding your bunny, call up your vet.

Not Giving Your Bunny Enough Play Time

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: Maybe your bun bites at the pen wires or rests her chin on the floor with a look of melancholy. She might binky away from you as you’re trying to round her up after hours of outdoor playtime. She has been trapped for centuries in her small area indoors while you were at work or out shopping.

REALITY: You are doing the best you can! As long as you’re not ONLY using the standard cages from the pet store, your rabbit will survive. In the wild, rabbits would have unlimited space to run around. Guess what they would also have. Predators. There’s a trade off for domestic living. Make sure your bun has enough room to binky inside a pen, and she should be fine. Pepper often acts like she’s trapped in her castle. Then, the second she gets out for play time, she sits in her favorite spot for hours. Don’t sweat it. Most humans would love a mansion, but some have to settle for studio apartments.

Having A Single Bunny

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: Actually, your rabbit seems fine. He binkies everywhere, eats perfectly fine, and snuggles with you for hours. It’s the internet and some of the more negative rabbit community members that are telling you your rabbit is depressed. Rabbits are by nature used to living in a warren. You’re a selfish and terrible pet parent for denying him more rabbit company.

two bunnies meeting through a fence — Baby and Pepper would often meet through a fence. Although they eventually got along enough to lay by each other, there were definitely some tensions.

REALITY: You are the pet parent! Maybe your apartment is too small for two rabbits. Maybe your rabbit is an emotional support animal. Maybe you don’t have the time to find a compatible rabbit and go through the intense bonding process. Would it be nice to give your bun a friend? Totally! Is it right for every pet parent? Not necessarily! Be your best pet parent self, and it will all be fine!

Breath! You’re doing the best you can, and your bunny loves you!

Have you been dealing with some pet parent guilt? Let me know in the comments, and we’ll get through it together!