It’s been about three months since Baby, our white lionhead bunny, passed away unexpectedly.
I can honestly say it was one of the worst experiences of my life. It’s still difficult to talk about, and there is very much still a gigantic hole in my heart.
The Feeling of Loss Consumes
It took a while to go a day without crying.
But since Baby has left us physically, our family found our home more empty.
There was no one for me to say goodbye to when we left the house.
There was no one to entice me downstairs on a cold morning.
There was no one to give the dinner prep scraps to. The celery tops were just thrown outside.
There was no one for me to pet after my son went to bed.
There was no one to love in the special way you can only love a bunny.
Every time I’d walk into the kitchen, I’d have to look over at the dining room. I’d have to see the empty space where his playpen used to be — where I used to be able to see him lounging or looking back at me.
The Idea of Fostering Helps Heal
Inevitably, the topic of getting another rabbit came up.
It was too soon.
The wound was too raw.
But the empty space in the dining room…
That’s when fostering was brought up.
We’d always considered fostering children at some point in our lives. So why not foster rabbits?
The Negatives of Fostering
We didn’t come upon this idea lightly. Of course there were plenty of questions and concerns we had to mull over.
Some things that threatened to dissuade us:
- What if we got too attached and couldn’t keep the rabbit?
- Who would be responsible for medical expenses?
- Would we be emotionally ready for this?
The Positives of Fostering
But there were obviously benefits to consider:
- We’d be honoring Baby’s memory.
- We’d be helping rabbits in need.
- We’d be providing a much needed service for a non-profit organization.
Ultimately, we decided that fostering was the best option for our family right now. We’d benefit from the presence of a bunny or two while also providing a vacation home/spa of sorts for bunnies in need.
The Process of Fostering
After we decided we wanted to go the fostering route, we had to do some research.
There are at least three animal shelters within 30 minutes of us and two rabbit specific rescue organizations nearby. Each one had its own ways to support or foster.
I made sure to read all the information online before deciding which ones to go with.
Picking an Organization to Foster For
- Will the organization provide you with necessary care supplies?
- Who pays for medical bills if the foster rabbit gets sick?
- What are the organizations expectations of care?
- What is their policy if you “foster fail” and want to adopt your foster rabbit?
- How long does it typically take for the organization’s foster rabbits to be adopted?
- What is the process for potential adoptees to meet the foster rabbit?
All of these things are important to consider. Especially if you find a particular organization does not align with your values or if you think you may not be able to meet certain standards (ex. The organization requires you to be able to give medication through injection, and you have a phobia of needles.)
We ended up going with Rabbit House Connection, an organization my family has worked with in the past.
Being Vetted by the Organization
The process from here likely varies between organizations, but you’ll likely have to go through a background check of some kind.
With Rabbit House Connection, I had a phone call with one of the members. She asked basic questions about my history with rabbits and what our household looks like.
Some of the questions were:
- Where do you live?
- Do you rent or own your home?
- Who lives in the house?
- Are there any other pets living there?
- Where would the foster rabbit stay?
- How far away is the nearest emergency veterinarian?
Once they deemed our family was a good fit, they had me fill out some paperwork and sign care agreements. I also had to call our vet to give House Rabbit Connection permission to contact them about how we’ve cared for past pets. Apparently, pet HIPAA is very real.
Getting Supplies
It’s different with every organization, but House Rabbit Connection provides you with everything you’ll need to foster a rabbit.
We met up with them to pick up an x-pen, food, toys, and general supplies. Any additional supplies we’d need, we’d have to buy ourselves and fill out a reimbursement form or schedule another meet-up.
The important thing to note is that you have to return supplies like bowls and x-pens if you stop fostering. You also have to thoroughly clean supplies between each foster rabbit placement.
Waiting for Your Foster Rabbit to Arrive
Then comes the waiting.
You could get a foster rabbit placed with you after a week or it could take longer.
Many organizations have a waitlist since there aren’t enough foster homes for all the rabbits in need. But things like waiting for spay/neuter surgeries to be complete can slow down the process.
This waiting period is the stage we’re in now.
We hope this inspires you to foster a rabbit of your own.
In the meantime, follow us on our fostering journey as we honor Baby in our own special way.