Pros and cons: Is owning a rabbit the right decision for you?

Deciding whether or not to get a rabbit can be a pretty tough decision. There are a lot of different factors to consider. A rabbit is certainly not for everyone, but they make adorable additions to the family.

These lists are not even.

Being a bunny lover, I’m pretty partial to the pros. But the cons can be real deal breakers for people. Know yourself and what is important to you in a pet.

Pros

rabbit snuggled in blankets
Having a rabbit in your family means having an instant cuddle buddy all the time!
  1. Adorableness: Rabbits are sooooooo cute. They’re perfectly Instagramable eye candy!
  2. The rewarding connection: There’s just something about earning a rabbit’s trust that is simply magical. Rabbits are naturally prey animals, so they don’t just cozy up to anyone. So when you’re petting your rabbit, and she starts licking you, it feels like you’re The Chosen One.
  3. The perfect bingeing pal: Rabbits are indoor pets, so they’re happy to stay inside with you all winterlong. For Baby and I, it meant binge watching the entire Gilmore Girls series on Netflix. Just a girl and her bun hanging out together ❤
  4. Litter training: Similar to a cat, rabbit can be trained to use a litter box. It means you don’t have to let them out to do their business when it’s raining or when there’s a snowstorm. Some pet parents recommend changing the litter box once a day with shedding top offs, while others settle for every couple of days. It’s as clean as YOU keep it. So if it starts to smell, whose fault is it, really?
  5. Teaching tricks: Rabbits can learn to do tricks. The best example I’ve seen is Bini the Bunny, but you can teach small tricks too. Baby and Pepper can both come when called. In the past, I’ve taught rabbits to stand up on their hind legs on command.
  6. Being trained: Your rabbits often train you! Baby once tricked my mom into petting him for two hours straight by giving little nudges and encouraging nips when she stopped petting him. He has also trained me to give him a carrot every day as soon as he hears me wake up. 
  7. Independence: Rabbits are the best combination of dogs and cats; oftentimes playful like a puppy but can do their own thing like a cat. You can go on a day trip and not have to worry about accidents at home. You don’t have to race home to let them go to the bathroom. You can go on a weekend trip if you stock rabbits with the essentials. Although bunnies love a good cuddle, they don’t need your attention 24/7. It offers flexibility.
  8. Long life: Bunnies are not like goldfish you buy at a carnival. Without illness, an indoor rabbit can live to be around 10 to 15 years old. You’ll have time to really bond with the bunny and have a long time partner in crime.  
  9. Bunny habitat: It is so much fun figuring out a setup for your bun! Even if you free roam your rabbit, you can make cardboard castles, box tunnels, etc. Or you can go fancy and convert a dresser into a bunny bungalow. See Pinterest for inspiration!
  10. The bunny community: You’ll be able to join other pet parents online, sharing cute pictures and getting advice. There are Facebook groups and plenty of bunny Instagram accounts (like ours!

Cons

rabbit chewing on newspaper
Rabbits are destructive, so you have to give them plenty of toys and activities to keep them occupied.
  1. Not a dog/ long bonding times: While some rabbits will follow you around and go for walks on leashes, they are NOT dogs. They won’t give the same burst of affection that dogs will. Bunnies are subtle creatures. You have to really make an effort to learn their language and bond with them. Once you do, you’re golden! This long-term bonding strategy is not for everyone.
  2. Lots of attention: While rabbits enjoy their independence, they do need a lot of love. That’s petting, cuddling, and just generally hanging out together. It is really, really nice, but you have to set aside the time for the pet you dedicated yourself to.
  3. Extensive care: A lot goes into making a bunny life buntastic! Bunnies need their nails trimmed, plenty of fresh hay and water, and toys. They’re work, just like literally any other pet.
  4. Expenses: It’s important to consider the cost of owning a rabbit – and not just the actual adoption fee. Over time, rabbits can become very expensive. Medical emergencies can come up, you may have to buy a bunch of toys before finding one your bunny actually likes, and food isn’t always cheap. Make sure you know what you’re getting into!
  5. Lots of Shedding: Like every pet that is not a naked mole rat, rabbits shed hair. It falls off in varying amounts depending on the season. They need to be pet/ groomed every day (but some breeds may require extensive brushing) to get rid of the loose hair. If you don’t, all that hair can stay in their stomachs. Rabbits can’t throw up hairballs like cats, so it can cause health issues. Basically, lint rollers will become your best friend. 
  6. Bunny-proofing everything: Each rabbit is different, but each have a bit of a destroy-your-house instinct. They’re like little kids who know they’re doing something wrong but still do it. Some bunnies will chew your cord and phone chargers. Some will bite at your wood baseboards. Some will rip up your carpet. Some will eat the buttons on your TV remote. The list goes on and on and on and on and on. As a pet parent, you will have to monitor your bunny’s behavior and make necessary changes. This takes time and work. Full warning: no matter what you do, something will be destroyed eventually.
  7. Weirdness: You’ll end up being that weird person with a rabbit. Many people will say things like, “Why don’t you just get a dog?” or worse, “Lol rabbit tastes good.” I’ve heard and read the nastiest and most insensitive things. You’re going to have to find a way to deal with that, either by ignoring it or venting to the rabbit community.

Did I miss any pros or cons? Let me know in the comments!

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So you want a rabbit? Here is an ethics comparison on where you buy

So you’ve thought about getting a rabbit for weeks. You’ve researched the pro’s and con’s of adopting a rabbit. The bunny is not just some Easter Bunny gift, you’re getting on a whim. You’re looking for a 10-13 year friend! Now, where do you get one?

An Animal Shelter/ Foster Home

bunny sitting down
Pepper was adopted from an animal shelter and was loved for the rest of her days.

EXPENSE: $$

MORALOMETER: 5 Thumbs Up

This is one of the more traditional ways to adopt a rabbit. Many people in the rabbit community consider it the best method, because animal shelters generally know more about rabbit welfare. Some are better than others though. I’ve adopted from some shelter who keep their rabbits in small metal compartments stacked together. But I’ve also seen shelters give bunnies whole pens to roam and play around.

Animal shelters will spay/neuter the rabbit ahead of adoption. That means the adoption fees will be higher. I’ve seen $60-$80 for one rabbit and around $120 for a bonded pair. That’s around what you would pay a vet anyway, so don’t feel like you’d be getting a bad deal. An extra bonus is that you don’t have to go through the trouble of finding your own vet.

The BIG BONUS is that some animal shelters or foster homes will socialize your bun for you! It’s not a perfect system, but they’ll oftentimes litter train the bunny. Foster parents will give bunnies lots of pets, so they’re a little more ready to be cuddled by new pet parents.

A Pet Store

EXPENSE: $$

MORALOMETER: 3 Thumbs Up

This is a point of contention in the rabbit community. Some are completely against buying a rabbit from the pet store. The bunnies typically come from breeders. But the biggest argument against pet stores is how they house the rabbits BEFORE they’re adopted. Oftentimes, the rabbits are only fed pellets (way too much) and do not have hay readily available for munching.

I agree. Terrible stuff.

But I would caution you before judging too hard. There is a pet supply store in my area that specifically tries to help rescue rabbits. Although their living space is not ideal, hopefully exposure with the public will give those bunnies a home faster! Plus, the employees are wizards with nail clippers and are so so nice!

Pet stores typically charge the same amount as animal shelters, but it pays to check whether they’re sexed properly and actually fixed. For every good pet store, there’s one that’s…… meh.

A Craigslist Ad

EXPENSE: ?

MORALOMETER: 3 Thumbs Up

This is method is also pretty controversial. There are some people out there selling meat rabbits (gahhhh) and breeders trying to sell rabbits to people who don’t know how much love a rabbits need.

craigslist ad for bunnies
Prices can vary on Craigslist. Some owners request a rehoming fee, while others want to get rid of their pets asap.

But some people genuinely want a good home for their buns. They’re either moving to an apartment that doesn’t allow pets or overwhelmed by the responsibilities of caring for a rabbit. Either way, I can’t judge them. They know they will not be able to handle being a pet parent and would rather give their rabbit a chance at a loving home.

Rabbits listed on Craigslist or other selling sites can range by A LOT. Some give rabbits away for free, because they just want to get rid of their pet asap. Others price their rabbits at around $60 as a “rehoming fee” to make sure the rabbit actually goes to a good home. Still others are trying to make a quick buck and gauge you.

I think it’s up to your own discretion with this one. Here’s my success story, proving that bunny love can come from the oddest circumstances.

A Breeder

EXPENSE: $$$

MORALOMETER: 1 Thumbs Up

Getting any animal from any breeder seems to be the cardinal sin of pet ownership. Sometimes the animals are overbred and have “bad” genetics. They’re generally overpriced.

Personally, I can’t blame people for going to breeders. If you have the money, great! If you want a particular breed, great! In my opinion, these are still rabbits, who were born to breeders through no fault of their own. All bunnies are special and deserve love!

A Friend/ Family Member

EXPENSE: $

MORALOMETER: 5 Thumbs Up

This, I think, is one of the best options for getting a bunny. It’s similar to the Craigslist option, but you’d be helping out people you actually know. The friend or family member may be able to give you any extra supplies they have, and they’re probably more willing to give you a deal. And similar to the animal shelter option, the previous owner will be able to give you a sense of the rabbit’s personality. If you’re pretty close to the person, you may even know the bunny already!

My family got our first two rabbits when our aunt’s bunny got pregnant. We loved them from babies to elderly buns!

Do your research and decide for yourself!

Let me know which option you used to find the bun of your dreams. Leave a comment!

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The Great Gender Mixup: Why it’s important to get a good vet

It was the classic gender mixup, which apparently happens more often than I had thought. Baby’s previous owners had told me the young rabbit was a girl, which is probably what they were told by a pet store or breeder.

I spent almost a month mulling over different names, and finally settled on Baby Anne. It was in honor of my favorite book character, Anne of Green Gables. But then, my family and I started noticing some warning signs.

Boy or Girl?

It started after my rabbit and I became friends. At first, Baby was jittery and was cautious about leaving his cage. After a few weeks, the bun was more comfortable with me and loved hopping around the living room. The hopping gave way to other habits.

one rabbit checks out another rabbit
Baby and Pepper had an interesting first meeting and proceeded to grow their love/hate relationship.

The rabbit started running circles around my feet and making little honking noises. I found it so cute and thought he was just really excited to see me. The honking was odd, but I brushed it off. Baby’s behavior started to get really annoying though, when he started mounting my arm. From my past experience bonding rabbits, I knew even girl buns mounted to establish dominance. It was clear that the previous owners had not fixed the rabbit, so it put it on my to-do list.

Baby behaved even worse when I brought him with me on a visit back home to my parents’ house. My sister has another Lionhead rabbit named Pepper, who happens to be a girl. One day, while we were all home, we let them both out to see if they would get along. In retrospect, it was a horrible idea! They immediately started fighting. Baby started mounting Pepper (who is fixed) from the front, which can be very dangerous for rabbits. It’s easier for them to get hurt because of the easy biting access. We separated them. At that point, my mom shared her suspicions with me. Maybe Baby Anne was a boy?

Suspicions Confirmed

When I got back home to New York, I scheduled a visit to a local veterinarian for an initial look. The vet I chose mostly treated dogs and cats, but she said they did take in rabbit patients. The first appointment went smoothly. I shared my concerns with the vet, listing off the various incidents. She reassured me some girl rabbits can be quite territorial, so the behaviours could stop once the surgery was done. Baby Anne it was.

Then came the actual surgery a week or two later. With much nervousness, I dropped Baby off at the vet and headed off to work. The office told me the procedure would be several hours. But I got a call from them about an hour later.

Vet: “Ummmm, so I have some news for you.”

Me: “Yesssss?”

Vet: “Baby Anne is actually Baby Andy.”

rabbit has to wear a modified baby onsie
Baby had to wear modified baby onesies for about two weeks as he recovered from surgery (so he wouldn’t bite at the stitches).

I was furious. Vet appointments are not cheap. Almost $80 for them to tell me the wrong gender. I love Baby either way, but the incompetence of a vet that “sees rabbits” was disappointing. It can be very difficult to find care for rabbits and other small pets, and I thought I had landed a good one. 

It had been several months since I had brought Baby home, so he was already used to his name. For the most part, I had shortened it to Baby when I called him, so that wasn’t too big of an issue. I did not take the vet’s name suggestion, mostly out of spite. 

Instead, I went with Baby Man. Dumb name? Maybe. But I thought it was a good way to make light of the story, while  emphasizing the change to my friends and family.

Lessons Learned

The stressful mixup taught me to research veterinarians before settling. Check with other pet owners in your area. Read reviews. If there aren’t many options, I’d recommend traveling to a reputable vet. Some just don’t cut it. If they can’t take the time to properly sex a rabbit, think about what would happen in a real rabbit health crisis!

rabbit has spot shaved from neuter surgery
The vet had to shave a spot of Baby’s fur to do the neuter surgery.

I love my rabbit, boy or girl. But it’s much better knowing which he is and being able to rely on a good vet.

What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned as a pet parent? Let me know in the comments, so we can learn together!

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Are you a good rabbit owner? Here’s how to handle pet parent guilt

Every bunny parent feels it at one point or another. The look in your bunny’s eye or the pitter pattering of small feet are just some of the triggers for pet parent guilt. Here are some of the reasons behind the guilt and why you are a GREAT pet parent.

Not Giving Your Bunny All The Treats

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: If your rabbit is anything like Baby, he LIVES for treats. As in he acts like he’s never eaten a day in his life! Each food pellet is a gift, and each carrot bit is a miracle. According to your rabbit, you are clearly starving him and this stomach is an empty void.

According to Baby, if a bowl is empty for more than two minutes, it is a sign he will soon starve.

REALITY: You give the healthy amount of food pellets! You give some treats for tricks and cuteness (although sometimes a tad much). There is always plenty of hay to rummage around in the playpen. Resist the urge to splurge! You wouldn’t exclusively feed kids candy, so don’t give in to your bun’s gluttony either! Stick to your bunny’s healthy diet. You know what your rabbit needs better than your rabbit does.  If you really are worried about what you’re feeding your bunny, call up your vet.

Not Giving Your Bunny Enough Play Time

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: Maybe your bun bites at the pen wires or rests her chin on the floor with a look of melancholy. She might binky away from you as you’re trying to round her up after hours of outdoor playtime. She has been trapped for centuries in her small area indoors while you were at work or out shopping.

REALITY: You are doing the best you can! As long as you’re not ONLY using the standard cages from the pet store, your rabbit will survive. In the wild, rabbits would have unlimited space to run around. Guess what they would also have. Predators. There’s a trade off for domestic living. Make sure your bun has enough room to binky inside a pen, and she should be fine. Pepper often acts like she’s trapped in her castle. Then, the second she gets out for play time, she sits in her favorite spot for hours. Don’t sweat it. Most humans would love a mansion, but some have to settle for studio apartments.

Having A Single Bunny

HOW YOUR BUNNY ACTS: Actually, your rabbit seems fine. He binkies everywhere, eats perfectly fine, and snuggles with you for hours. It’s the internet and some of the more negative rabbit community members that are telling you your rabbit is depressed. Rabbits are by nature used to living in a warren. You’re a selfish and terrible pet parent for denying him more rabbit company.

two bunnies meeting through a fence
Baby and Pepper would often meet through a fence. Although they eventually got along enough to lay by each other, there were definitely some tensions.

REALITY: You are the pet parent! Maybe your apartment is too small for two rabbits. Maybe your rabbit is an emotional support animal. Maybe you don’t have the time to find a compatible rabbit and go through the intense bonding process. Would it be nice to give your bun a friend? Totally! Is it right for every pet parent? Not necessarily! Be your best pet parent self, and it will all be fine!

Breath! You’re doing the best you can, and your bunny loves you!

Have you been dealing with some pet parent guilt? Let me know in the comments, and we’ll get through it together!

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