How to convince a landlord to let you have a rabbit

As bunny owners, our furry friends are true members of the family! But in some areas, it can be difficult to find pet-friendly apartments.

The last thing anyone wants to do is give up their pet because of a difficult housing search. There are some things to look for when trying to find housing that will work for you and your fur child.

4/5 of the apartments I’ve had over the last six years have not been officially “pet-friendly.”

Here’s what worked for Baby (my lionhead fur child) and I!

What to look for in an apartment listing

If you don’t see a lot of listings for pet-friendly apartments in general, try narrowing the search to “cats allowed.” A landlord is typically more likely to allow cats than dogs. Plus it’s easier to get your prospective landlord to compare a rabbit to a cat (both can be litter trained, both are relatively quiet, etc).

But don’t necessarily let “no pets” warnings within the listings deter you from asking about a rabbit. Oftentimes landlords automatically think of pets as cats and dogs, so they might consider a smaller pet.

When I owned an aquatic frog as well as a rabbit, I literally asked my prospective landlord, “I know the listing said no pets, but would you allow a little bunny and a frog?” He ended up laughing and saying he’d definitely allow such small pets.

Sometimes it just comes down to how you frame your question.

How to convince your landlord to allow bunnies

In my experience, it all comes down to framing.

Many landlords seem to have the antiquated perception of rabbits as pets. They picture your bunny in a tiny little cage, more like a hamster.

While it’s important not to lie, I typically don’t specifically say I’ll be free roaming my rabbit. I just play up the cuteness of bunnies and how little they are. Doing this seems to minimize the impact of rabbits on the wellbeing of the building itself in the landlord’s eyes. Like how could my little bunny rabbit possibly be any trouble?

It also helps, of course, if you’re a stellar tenant with a great track record. Make sure to fill out applications properly. Chat with the potential landlord to create a positive repertoire. And hopefully you haven’t let your rabbit destroy past apartments so you can have good references to vouch for you!

What to say to your potential landlord about your bunny

Here are some things I’ve said to landlords:

  • “I know the listing says ‘No Pets,’ but do you allow smaller animals like fish or rabbits?” – I find putting rabbits in the “Fish” category makes them seem less problematic.
  • “I have a white rabbit. Is that alright?” – This is typically followed by showing the landlord a bunch of cute photos of Baby, my rabbit. It can be hard to resist his lionhead allure!

Decide whether to free roam or not

In an ideal world, all pet bunnies would be able to free roam all day long. But for many renters, that may not be an option.

Know your rabbit.

Some rabbits can free roam all the time and be perfect angels. Others will start riping up carpet the second you turn around.

If your bunny is destructive, I’d recommend a hybrid approach.

While living in our first apartment, I started out Baby free roaming full time once he was litter trained. Then, a few months in, I discovered he’d been secretly ripping up the rug in one corner of the living room. Not only was this a danger to my deposit, it was very dangerous for Baby’s digestive system. From then on, we’ve let him free roam while we can supervise, but put him in a large playpen at night and when we have to leave the apartment.

Tips for bunny-proofing your apartment

If you do decide to free roam in any capacity, you’ll want to take a mental analysis of your apartment.

Even if you bunny-proof to the extreme, you should routinely check around to make sure your bunny hasn’t gotten past your defenses. There have been many times where Baby has masterminded his way around some of our tactics. We compare him to a velociraptor from Jurassic Park sometimes!

What kind of flooring does your apartment have?

If your bunny is the type that’s afraid of hardwood, you might need to buy some area rugs. If your apartment is carpeted, you may have to put down some tiles (you can buy by the square at a hardware store) or buy rugs to out on top of rugs.

We did the double rug route for underneath Baby’s playpen since he’d be there even when we couldn’t supervise.

Does your apartment have baseboards?

Some rabbits love to chew on the wood.

You can block off baseboards with wire cube storage squares. We’ve also used these to block off the bottoms of tv consoles and some areas with wires.

Where are the cords in your apartment?

This is especially important if you have a long cable/internet cord. In some apartments I’ve had, these cords have been VERY long.

You can either block off the area with wire cube storage squares or put a wire protector over it.

Respecting a landlord’s decision and avoiding disaster

At the end of the day, it’s your landlord’s choice whether to allow pets or not.

The one thing I would never do is secretly keep a pet in an apartment that does not allow them.

One of my landlords let me have a rabbit in a no-pets apartment when I asked in advance. But he told me a story of a former tenant who had secretly gotten a dog. When another tenant complained about the barking, he had to tell her to either move out or give up the dog. She ended up giving away the dog. Such a sad story and so avoidable! And the landlord is a really nice guy who felt awful about the whole thing.

Lying to a landlord and breaking a contract could result in heartbreak or, even worse, legal trouble! Don’t put you or your rabbit in that kind of situation. It’s worth putting in the extra work to find an apartment that really does allow pets or even moving to another town to find more options.

Finding alternatives

Unfortunately, things don’t always go the way we plan.

Maybe there are barely any apartments in your area for rent. Maybe you’re priced out of all the apartments that allow pets. Maybe there’s just too much of a time crunch to find anything.

Whatever happens, it’s important to do what is best for your bun — whatever that means to you.

I’ve seen stories on rabbit Facebook groups of people who have lived out of their cars with their rabbits so they could keep their families together. Others have given their rabbit to friends or family on a temporary basis.

If you do have to give your rabbit up permanently, make sure you do so safely.

Do not give your rabbit up for free or even for a small fee on Craigslist or Facebook. Some people use those platforms to find easy food for snakes. It’s much better to find a local shelter or home-based rescue. These groups tend to care very deeply for animals and have the resources to connect your bunny with a new home.

Pray for the best!

Hopefully you’re able to find some awesome, pet-friendly housing for your family.

Don’t underestimate the power of prayer. During your search, you may want to call upon St. Melangell, patron saint of hares, for help!

Happy house hunting!

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How to celebrate your rabbit’s birthday and gotcha day

In our household, we love to celebrate!

We give our lionhead, Baby, a photoshoot for almost every holiday – and his gotcha day is no exception!

But a gotcha day is about more than some pics! We go all out! It helps that my birthday is the same day as Baby’s gotcha day!

Here’s how we roll! Hopefully it gives you some ideas for your own celebrations.

Make a veggie cake

Pamper your bun with a veggie cake!

There are some small businesses who sell bunny friendly cakes. They typically don’t use fresh veggies. Instead they’ll use compacted baked treats. The creations look amazing!

You can also make your own pretty easily.

Here’s one we made:

Suggested Ingredients

  • Carrots
  • Celery
  • Parsley

You can also add any other favorite vegetables your bunny has!

Building Instructions

  1. Put down a small plate.
  2. Cut celery tops so the bottoms are level.
  3. Put a rubber band around the celery tight enough, so they stand up together. Feel free to add parsley to the bundle.
  4. Stand up the baby carrots around the celery to hide the rubber band.

Important: Make sure you supervise your bunny while they eat their homemade bunny “cake,” so they don’t eat the rubber band. Your bunny also doesn’t have to eat it all at once. Likely it’s more carrots than they should have in one sitting, so you can save some for another day (just like humans do on their birthdays).

Make your bunny the star with their own themed photoshoot

I always like to have a mini photoshoot for Baby’s gotcha day to help commemorate the moment.

It doesn’t have to be anything crazy, although I have seen some people go truly deluxe with their setup.

For this year’s shoot, I just went to the Dollar Tree and got some cheap decorations to use as background props.

Treat your rabbit with a birthday/gotcha day surprise gift

What’s a birthday or gotcha day without gifts???

Some years, I’ve gotten Baby just a small gift. But other years, I’ve gone all out! For one gotcha day, my family even joined in and got him some presents too!

Here are some ideas for your own bun that Baby has enjoyed on past birthdays:

Food

Toys

  • Baby keys
  • Baby rings
  • A stuffed animal (Just make sure your bunny doesn’t ingest any “fur” while grooming their new friend)

Habitat Upgrades

Spend quality time together

Last but certainly not least, spend some time together!

In the end, it’s not about the presents or the photos, but about the time you share with one another.

Take some time to get on your bunny’s level. Find their favorite spot and give them a good bun massage!

Cherish every moment you have with your bun!

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Warning! This is adorable! We introduced our rabbit to our newborn baby

Many people who know me in real life probably also know that my white lionhead, Baby, is my entire world.

I first got him off of Craigslist when I moved to upstate New York for my first post-college job. He was my greatest companion when I had none in a stranger new place away from family and friends. The only times we’ve been separated for more than a day have been for maybe one vacation and a few of Baby’s emergency hospital visits for GI stasis.

So when my husband and I found out I was pregnant, we were a little nervous about how our changing situation would play out.

Would we still have enough quality time to spend with Baby? I’d pet him for hours each day, especially since I worked from home and didn’t need two hands to click my computer mouse.

Would Baby be jealous? He’s been an only child so far and didn’t even love the idea of having another rabbit sibling.

Preparing Baby for the newborn and hospital stay

At about the 8 month mark of the pregnancy, my husband and I came up with an action plan for making sure Baby was taken care of while we were in the hospital.

Our usual babysitters, my parents, were more than willing to help out. And we had a note with care instructions ready to go.

We also wanted to include Baby in the lead-up to the birth. This included the mini photoshoots we did at home.

We had our baby in mid-February and spent two days in the hospital

We didn’t do much to prep Baby for the screaming of a newborn. Baby won’t flinch at my husband yelling while playing video games, but if I sneeze, it’s a total disruption to whatever he’s doing. We knew his reaction to a baby would ultimately be a toss up.

Checking in on Baby during the hospital stay

This was definitely one of those situations where I am 1000% grateful I bought a pet cam years ago.

During our two-day hospital stay, I was able to periodically check our Wyze cam to see how he was doing. He’s had a few bouts of stasis, so it was really important to me that I could still monitor him. Even though our absence threw off his routine anyway, I would at least be able to tell if he was eating the food my parents were dishing out.

It was absolutely adorable to see him eating hay, making a mess, jumping into his litter box, and napping. Even though I couldn’t be there with him, it took some of the anxiety away and made me feel like we weren’t forgetting him now that we had a human baby to worry about.

Coming home was a whole other adventure!

On the hospital, you at least get some breaks. They may take the baby away for 15 minutes here and there for testing, and bring him back nice and calm.

But at home, you’re on your own!

Our usual daily routine was completely thrown off, replaced by the needs of our human child. Between the screaming and the breastfeeding and the diaper changing and the burping, it was almost impossible to give Baby the real attention he deserved. Because the baby kept us up at all hours, there wasn’t really a start or end to our days. That meant we missed his morning puzzle feeder routine and barely made the late night veggie snack platter time.

The one trade-off was that we camped out in the living room. Because we could supervise him 24/7, Baby was able to start free roaming all the time. Typically he’d only free roam during the day (for his own safety), so this was a big upgrade for him.

At first, Baby was completely indifferent to our newborn. He was far more excited about us finally being home to let him out of his playpen. He did zoomies for about a half hour straight!

Slowly, Baby has been taking an interest, but it’s still very passive. If we’re changing our baby on the ottoman, Baby might come up to check it out. Or if he happens to be there already, he won’t be too bothered by the screaming.

Developing a routine that worked for our family

The first week or so, there was no routine. Everything was dictated by the hunger and bowel movements of our newborn. We couldn’t even get through a 20 minute tv show without having to pause five times (ultimately giving up entirely).

We tried to get to Baby as much as we could. Unfortunately shedding season must have begun while we were in the hospital, because his fur was just flying off!

After a week, things started to level out. Our newborn started sleeping for longer stretches, giving us a chance to breath. We were able to use some of those stretches to give Baby all the attention he wanted.

I could go back to petting him for 30 minutes at a time. We were also able to get back into our morning and night feeding routine again.

It wasn’t the same, but it’s what we could manage.

Trying our best

During the whole process, I felt so so guilty that I wasn’t giving Baby all the love he needed. I definitely cried a few times mourning our past life together.

I can only compare it to people who have multiple children and feel guilty they’re neglecting the emotional needs of their older children.

Having a human baby is a serious life change. It can take a while to adjust, and we’re still a work in progress ourselves!

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